That is not so nice...

It does make me feel nice to be nice. Being nice to people also make me feel nice. The fact that people are not being nice to you for being nice does not really make you feel nice. I still want to be nice for I am supposed to be nice to people so that people will be nice to me…

I was told that, your intention will determine the outcome. Is it because I want reward for being nice that it does not become nice then? Then it is true, put your intention for the sake of your God then the nice intention you have is pure. Your God will determine your reward then.

Still, it does make you wonder, how some people can be so stupid or maybe you can also put it as ignorance. I am not complaining or having regrets for being nice, just that human can just be so plain evil…

I mean, if you had been nice to them, at least have the tendency to return something. Sometimes or you can say, most of the time, just by saying thank you is not enough. Give something in return, if the person always gives your things. No matter how small it is, they will feel appreciated.

If a person always cooks, or does the household chores or anything, at least help out, not just sit there watching and saying thank you. After a while those words, thank you, does not really carry the meaning very well. Do something to show that you really mean it.

There are people who live in this world feeling lucky that they have other people to do stuff for them. There are people who think these people are spoilt brats and do the chores or stuff, not exactly for them, but for the sake of their own comfort too. I mean, if you live in a house full of pigs, and you are not one, you will do something so that you are not one of the pigs too unless you are fine living in a pigsty later on…

These people said that one of the reasons they can do most of the works are because they have maid back home. So, why should they do work when they had already paid the maid to do them. To me this answer just tells me how stupid and short sighted they are… The maid is there to help. If by doing some of the works make you a better person, then you do not lose anything. These people will go out and buy stuff which half of the stuff the bought they do not really need. Yet they complain they will not get money their money worth if they do the maid job. How much more stupid can these people be…

Then again it is true, by being to nice you are not being nice to yourself. Other people do not really care whether you have eaten or not. Then why should you? Other people do not care to cook for you, then why should you? Like I said, being too nice is not too nice. It will just make people use you more for their own gain.

I have much to learn in balancing being nice. I feel sorry for people most of the time. Most of the time people do not feel sorry for me. Still I try to give my best and that prove to be my greatest weaknesses…