tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4080342849442093382024-03-13T23:11:52.390+08:00Within the Darkness...Feel like how I had felt them...DarkErebushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10817415056865732465noreply@blogger.comBlogger202125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-408034284944209338.post-8153193199053363442013-10-04T21:55:00.001+08:002013-10-04T21:55:18.446+08:00Read The Manual...Assalamualaikum and Good Day...<br />
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Enjoy the video THE MAKER below! Came across it somehow and IT WAS REALLY GOOD!<br />
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ZealousCreative did an awesome job for this short stop motion video! I had enjoyed every minute of the story.<br />
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I especially love the background music, The Winter which was composed by Paul Halley. It is a lovely piece and really went very well with the story telling.<br />
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All I want to say here is the bunny creature should have read the manual until the end. At least, he can spend more time with his creation…<br />
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ENJOY!DarkErebushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10817415056865732465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-408034284944209338.post-79771980196159947642013-10-03T15:58:00.000+08:002013-10-04T22:00:15.499+08:00The wedding is nigh... Part 2!Assalamualaikum and Good Day...<br />
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My dear reader... It is also said that when there is something good such as marriage, syaitan (the devil) will work hard to make sure it fail.<br />
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Ah, if you had not read the first part, you can do so<a href="http://darkerebus.blogspot.com/2013/10/the-wedding-is-nigh-part-1.html" target="_blank"> HERE</a>.<br />
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True enough, there were lots of challenges faced by at that time wife to be and I. We faced stuff that made me rethink and ponder whether we were meant to be married. Alhamdulillah, we hold fast to our main goal of getting married. I have to mention my mother was also one of the main contributors to the success of my union with my wife.<br />
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This was also the time when I really sat down and think about the company where I used to work at. As you all probably know, my previous job required me to be offshore most of the time. All this while, I usually went offshore without much fuss, always cancelling my family events and my other social stuffs at the last minute. I did not like it but work is work. I sacrificed a lot for the sake of the company.<br />
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This time around since I was getting married, I insisted to be back a month before my big day. Boy, it was actually a no no for my boss. He was not happy with that. Once I was back in the office, he called me into his room for some friendly chat. One of the main thing he highlighted was the company was lenient enough to allow me to come back early and I should be thankful. I was like, WHAT THE HECK? It is not like I am getting married like every day! Probably he thought that I should be coming back a day before my wedding day. Probably he is one of the lucky guys who did not have to lift a finger in doing everyday stuff or basically anything. He always has somebody doing things for him. Well… I am very sorry that I am not as lucky as you are boss… This really clicked to me that I should not be in this company for too long. In the future, I will have to sacrifice my family time just so that the company can succeed… WHAT IN IT FOR ME THEN?<br />
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Then I was worried about my wife to be wedding dress which was not even ready. I am lucky to get a simple lady as my life companion but there are times I want her to be in her best. Our wedding is one of the times… I really have to thank all of my aunties and sisters who jumped after hearing the wedding dress was not ready. This one particular aunty, my mother and my sister even put as much details as possible onto her wedding dress. I am grateful beyond word for all the love involved in getting her dress perfected.<br />
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There were few more surprises as the date got closer. Unexpected expenses few days before the wedding day… This was one of the times where I really curse the tradition. I mean, logically if a tradition pulls you down and do not really benefit you, it should not be practice. It creates misery and makes your life hard… And especially if the tradition conflict with the religion. Which one is correct then? Which one will you be afraid of more? Here is the test for us to see what really reside in our heart and whether we uphold our belief. In the end, we gave in just so we can at least get some good start for the new family.<br />
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Sigh… That all happened before my big day… I was really tired at that time and thought that getting married was TOO DIFFICULT!<br />
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Alhamdulillah with my family support, we got on to the final chapter of my single life...DarkErebushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10817415056865732465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-408034284944209338.post-32018379119781792542013-10-02T15:56:00.000+08:002013-10-02T15:56:00.827+08:00The wedding is nigh… Part 1!Assalamualaikum and Good Day to you my fine reader…<br />
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It had been a while since my last post on my wedding and the end of the year is looming closer as we speak. Insyaallah I will finish this wedding story of mine before this year come to end.<br />
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Once the wedding cards were all done, the guest name list was next. This was also a pain in the neck. Please remember that the number of guests is linear to the cost of food and the door gifts. Also you will not believe how many people were supposed to be in the guest list… Just to keep the story short, it was slightly less than the number of people residing in the city where I live…<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">All packed up and ready to go...</td></tr>
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It was also unfortunate that I had to be offshore during all this commotion. There were people who received my wedding invitation card twice, some who did not it at all and some were invited via word of mouth…<br />
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Alhamdulillah my parents were very practical about the number of friends they invited. I too had to short list the number of friends to be invited. This was so that ermmmm… our most senior family member could invite more friends. With all due respect we did not mind as long as we do not have to cross out most of our friends too. I mean, IT IS OUR WEDDING and our friends (my parents, my wife and I) should be given priority. Again, it did not work that way here in my country tradition…<br />
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Thus I have to apologize to my friends who did not receive any invitation. I sincerely wished that all of you could be at my happiest day of my life…<br />
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But reality did not allow us to be together…DarkErebushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10817415056865732465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-408034284944209338.post-3718198639290678792013-10-02T11:49:00.001+08:002013-10-02T12:20:01.173+08:00Moving On... Stronger...Assalamualaikum and Good Day…<br />
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My sister shared something wonderful today over the <a href="https://www.facebook.com/YasminMogahed/posts/10102523341420447" target="_blank">FaceBook</a>. This lady here, <a href="http://www.yasminmogahed.com/category/yasmin-online-journal/" target="_blank">Yasmin Mogahed</a> had said something that made me stand up and continue walking…<br />
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<i><span style="color: #674ea7;">“I know you feel worn and tired. I know you're tired of failing. Rest, but don't stop. You can do this. You got this. </span></i><br />
<i><span style="color: #674ea7;">Not because you're strong, but because He's your strength.”</span></i><br />
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Thank you o my sister and thank you Yasmin Mogahed for the wonderful reminder…<br />
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DarkErebushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10817415056865732465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-408034284944209338.post-91306164029437758152013-09-14T14:10:00.001+08:002013-09-14T14:10:06.126+08:00The Working World For Most People...Assalamualaikum and Good Day...<br />
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I am going to share this guy, Angel Boligan, drawing. His drawing is weird at first glance but when you look at it properly and ponder, has deep meaning within. Well, they do said that a picture said a thousand words...<br />
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<br />DarkErebushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10817415056865732465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-408034284944209338.post-70567513405249805362013-09-04T01:26:00.002+08:002013-09-04T01:26:25.013+08:00This Year Eid Fitr...Assalamualaikum and Wishes of Peace to you.<br />
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A lot of changes were brought to this year Eid Fitr in our family. We have new family members. I got married in March and my sister in July. This will also be another year where most of the family members were not around during Ramadhan. My sister and brothers are studying in the universities far from where we live.<br />
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Thus we look forward to see everybody during Ramadhan and of course during Eid Fitr. It will be one of the few occasions where you will get to see all of us together.<br />
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What we had forgotten is all of us aged, we got older. With each passing years, we pick up new ideals, change our way of thinking, our priority etc.<br />
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It is very sad to see the only one who looks forward to see the family whole is only my mother. I knew she had been counting days to see one by one of her children home. One of her greatest wish for this Eid was to see all of her children plus my wife and my sister husband in the family photo.<br />
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We always take the whole family photo every Eid. We were supposed to do so this year. Alas, mother was left with just the wish.<br />
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I guess it is during time like this that we get to see who or what are the priorities in our life. Maybe Allah gave us tests and made us chose. Unfortunately, we did not get to make mother’s simplest wish to come true. Probably we forgot who we should please the most in the first place. In our excitement, we forgot to make one person that loves us the most, the happiest. We easily gave in to our own selfish desires and wants. So much so that we could not grant the simplest wish of a mother.<br />
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Just a reminder to whoever read this, truly we do not know how soon death will greet us. Truly we will all be tested in even the simplest way and without us knowing. When we said we love a person, we will be tested to exactly show just how much we love a person. When we realized that, let us hope it is not too late to shower our love.<br />
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Do treasure the time you have with your family. You will be the luckiest person if you get the chance to do so again in the near future. But what if that pleasure is not given to you anymore? Truly we do not want to lengthen the list of things we regret in our life…<br />
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Assalamualaikum and good day.</h3>
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You had probably read about the offshore life pros and cons in my previous entry. If not, you read it up <a href="http://darkerebus.blogspot.com/2013/09/oilfield-life.html" target="_blank">HERE</a>.</h3>
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Anyway, I do have few things I want to add…<br />
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So, for those who want to work offshore do take these things into account…<br />
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1.<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span><span style="color: red;">YES you get a good wage</span> depending which company you are working with. Smaller company tends to squeeze every penny out of you. Meaning you will be slaved with measly amount of pay…<br />
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2.<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span><span style="color: red;">YES you can up your lifestyle with a nice home car and holidays</span> but if you are in the position mentioned in item 1, sorry, no nice home and car just yet. And when you are slaved by the company, you will hardly go for holiday. Some company will not even give you days for you to recover once you return from offshore. You are supposed to be as fit as a fiddle or they prefer you to be a robot… even then, a robot or machine will breakdown if used continuously…<br />
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3.<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span><span style="color: red;">YES the financial rewards are tempting</span> meaning if you go offshore often, you will get more. Which is true since you do not have the time to spend the money anyway…<br />
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4.<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span><span style="color: red;">YES you do get a considerable time at home when you are home.</span> Refer to item 2. Some big companies do offer off days for their employee where they will be left to rest until their next trip. Some, will have you work for them as long as you can still stand up…<br />
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5.<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span><span style="color: red;">YES you are in a cabin or prison cell for twelve hours a day and working the other twelve</span>. I do not get this part actually. I had referred to the labour law and they mentioned that we are supposed to only work 8 HOURS PER DAY no matter where you are working! Yet nobody said anything about this and it seems that working offshore for 12 hours a day is a norm. By right, according to labour law, you should be working 8 hours PLUS 4 hours overtime everyday…<br />
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6.<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span><span style="color: red;">YES you have to share with people who snore and smell</span> unless you are some high and mighty guy in your company. You will probably given a room on your own or at least, share it with just another person. If not, everybody is treated like rubbish most of the time.<br />
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7.<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span><span style="color: red;">YES you have to put up with substandard cramped conditions and food.</span> The offshore officers loved all this health and safety stuffs. They make it such a big deal that we thought IT IS THE MOST important thing there. After all, all this safety and health stuffs suppose to protect you and keep you safe. I will say, in most cases, they DO NOT CARE about your safety, your place is not always clean and the food served could be better. There are people who said that prison is even better than offshore living quarters…<br />
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8.<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span><span style="color: red;">YES You do miss your loved ones</span> and to make it worst, if you are not the high ranking important guys offshore, it will be very difficult for you to keep in touch with your loved ones. Somehow, with all the technology available, most of the offshore facilities in my country have like 1 phone for every 100 people on board. Internet connection is not existent in some places and at places that have it, the speed is really really slow. It took me one hour just to read emails from my yahoo mail and sent a document less than 1MB. I heard, offshore outside of my country have more phones and good internet access. At least you can still keep in touch with people onshore…<br />
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These are the points that really make me sit and think about working offshore in the long run…DarkErebushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10817415056865732465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-408034284944209338.post-13287917403657540042013-09-02T02:02:00.000+08:002013-09-02T02:02:00.340+08:00OILFIELD LIFEAssalamualaikum and good day.<br />
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Here is something that was shared with me during my life as an engineer who work offshore… I had added and changed a few things but the message that we the offshore men want people to know remain the same.<br />
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<i><span style="color: #674ea7;">For all the guys wanting to work offshore and abroad take stock before you sign on the dotted line :</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="color: #674ea7;">YES you get a good wage</span></i><br />
<i><span style="color: #674ea7;">YES you can up your lifestyle with a nice home car and holidays</span></i><br />
<i><span style="color: #674ea7;">YES the financial rewards are tempting</span></i><br />
<i><span style="color: #674ea7;">YES you do get a considerable time at home when you are home</span></i><br />
<i><span style="color: #674ea7;">YES you are in a cabin or prison cell for twelve hours a day and working the other twelve </span></i><br />
<i><span style="color: #674ea7;">YES you have to share with people who snore and smell</span></i><br />
<i><span style="color: #674ea7;">YES you have to put up with substandard cramped conditions and food </span></i><br />
<i><span style="color: #674ea7;">YES You do miss your loved ones </span></i><br />
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<i><span style="color: #674ea7;">SO ??? BEFORE YOU EMBARK ON A TRIP AND SIGN YOUR LIFE AWAY THINK ON ????</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="color: #674ea7;">NO you will not be there for all your kids’ birthdays </span></i><br />
<i><span style="color: #674ea7;">NO you will not make it to every party, BBQ or whoever 40th, 60th, 80th birthday anniversary </span></i><br />
<i><span style="color: #674ea7;">NO you will not always see your kids swim or ride a bike for the first time</span></i><br />
<i><span style="color: #674ea7;">NO you will not be there at holy trinity or school plays and see them being presented with a medal for sports day or a high achievement</span></i><br />
<i><span style="color: #674ea7;">NO you will not always be there and will feel helpless and far away in times of family crisis</span></i><br />
<i><span style="color: #674ea7;">NO you will not be there to bury a family member or close friend</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="color: #674ea7;">SO BEFORE ANYONE JUDGES SOMEONE WHO HAS THE GUTS TO WORK AWAY AND TRY TO MAKE A BETTER LIFE FOR HIS FAMILY DON'T say he is lucky or he is minted !!!!! He has sacrificed more than half his life to make his family's life a GOOD one filled with happiness and hope.</span></i><br />
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I will elaborate more with my own experience working offshore in the next post…<br />
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DarkErebushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10817415056865732465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-408034284944209338.post-62091734768898868392013-09-01T15:27:00.001+08:002013-09-02T10:48:28.405+08:00Independence Day? Really?Assalamualaikum and good day to you reader…<br />
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Yesterday marked the 56th National Day for my country. As always, this date, 31st August always bring some sort of controversy to the people in my country.<br />
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Also one of the latest update for this year is that my state had also somehow unearthed that it gained its freedom from the Brooke Dynasty on the 22nd July 1963. Ok… One of my questions will be, why on earth do we get to know this only today? I did ask around and most of the people (those who are close to me only) did not even know about this! Forget about asking the younger generation, I went straight to people of my parents and grandparents age regarding this issue and they DO NOT KNOW ABOUT THIS!<br />
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Here are some links to the 22nd July:<br />
<a href="http://www.theborneopost.com/2013/07/22/declare-july-22-a-public-holiday-government-urged/" target="_blank">LINK1</a> <a href="http://www.theborneopost.com/2013/07/22/sarawak-brave-to-celebrate-july-22-independence-day-says-kitingan/" target="_blank">LINK2</a> <a href="http://www.theborneopost.com/2013/05/01/star-candidate-wants-july-22-public-holiday/" target="_blank">LINK3</a><br />
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Some people argue that someone had somehow added a new page into the history. As usual followed by the statement that the anti government people work is behind all this. Some people claimed that since history is written by those in power, they had purposely left this bit out. If this is true, I am not sure what the main reason for doing such thing is at the moment.<br />
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However, for sure the date 31st August is not the correct date to be celebrated by the whole country IF we are harping about promoting unity. Uniting people need to be with something that everybody in the country can relate to. Something that is similar with majority of the people in the country. Why not 16th September? The day when my present country came to be as it is now? The day when the Tanah Melayu, Sarawak, Sabah and Singapore were united into one country, Malaysia? It is the day of UNITY!<br />
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I am not sure what is wrong with the people nowadays… Not to disrespect anybody, but 31st August IS ONLY FOR SEMENANJUNG MALAYSIA! What does it got to do with Sabah and Sarawak? Some people did argue that without that, Malaysia would not even exist… Hmmmm… Well, do look into the possibility that Sabah and Sarawak would not even join Malaysia since we can stand on our own. Brunei declined the offer to do so. If Sarawak and Sabah did that, could we possibly be another country on our own? Countries maybe?<br />
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If we talk about IF the possibilities are endless! But since event had passed, should not we focus on NOW? Why the 16th September was never highlighted in the first place? Why it is treated as if it is of no significant? No importance? To achieve unity, we should give and take. We cannot hold each other hands if our hands are full of other things that we think are much more important than the unity that we proudly claim to be our most important value.<br />
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Our history need to be studied and researched again just so that the REAL history can be properly shared with our future generation.<br />
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I have now joined this MLM under SHAKLEE. It is a starting for me in the world of business as well as a jump start for me to work on my own.<br />
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Shaklee my dear reader had been around for quite some time now and the reason why we hardly hear its name is because this company is one of the company that believe in using the money used for marketing to be given to other people. Actually, Shaklee is one of the earliest companies to use the MLM concept to expand and reach out to others!<br />
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Its founder, Dr. Forrest C Shaklee wanted to make the world a better place by giving health to us through his product Vitalized Mineral (which later shortened to VITAMIN). He also believes that the proper use of his product is through word of mouth. One person teaching another person to properly optimize the usage of his Vitamins! Thus the Multi Level Marketing (MLM)was born!<br />
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Do drop by at my new blog below (which is in Malay language and I am now doing the English part so that I can share the Shaklee goodies with more people) to know more about SHAKLEE:<br />
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<a href="http://darkasclepius.blogspot.com/">Within the Happiness</a>DarkErebushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10817415056865732465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-408034284944209338.post-66907777615647007832013-08-22T16:44:00.000+08:002013-08-22T16:44:02.986+08:00Selamat Hari Raya! Eid Mubarak!Assalamualaikum,<br />
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Sorry for the very late entry but it is still not too late to wish you all:<br />
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I took the poster my brother designed for my mother's association event. It is so lovely that I have to put it in my blog!DarkErebushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10817415056865732465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-408034284944209338.post-69027461304636784942013-07-18T23:18:00.001+08:002013-09-03T00:15:49.138+08:00Something to share with my fellow Muslims in my country especially…<div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;">
<span style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">Here is an interesting video to
watch and ponder. It had been around for quite a while but I decided to put it
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<span style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">Insyaallah, I will be able to do just that… I still
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<span style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">Thank you <a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/terajuofficial?feature=watch" target="_blank">Terajuofficial</a>!</span></div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-408034284944209338.post-20694015020758495882013-07-10T11:44:00.001+08:002013-07-10T11:44:12.666+08:00Ramadhan... IS HERE!Salam to you and happy doing ibadah in Ramadhan!<br />
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Take this opportunity to grab as many goodies (mostly spiritual) as possible! Write down some targets to be achieved in this short 29 or 30 days of Ramadhan. Fasting and tarawikh are just the icing of the whole thing. Beneath them, there are heaps of other benefits and rewards awaiting those who know. Do seek more knowledge on how to get the best out of Ramadhan.<br />
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One of the good sites to start on is <a href="http://www.facebook.com/Owhsomuslim?directed_target_id=0" target="_blank">here</a>! They upload tips to guide you for the whole month.<br />
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Owh, and enjoy these videos as well. Grab them from the same site.<br />
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Alhamdulillah, I do hope my first videos on my blog will benefit those who watch them. Thank you very much to sikosong and officialQR for the great videos!</div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-408034284944209338.post-15035656802313080022013-07-08T08:08:00.000+08:002013-07-08T08:08:00.339+08:00The Wedding Card... Nightmare!This happened while I was busy creating my wedding card…<br />
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I wanted a simple and catchy invitation card. I had taken an interest on invitation cards produced by the western countries. They keep the cards simple and attractive. Not to forget, creative.<br />
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The country where I live on the other hand clings so hard to our tradition that creativity had not been given the chance to bloom. There are a few breaths taking cards no doubt about it but not as much as the western people. Due to our rigidness, the invitation cards are more or less the same from one to another. Here are some examples of the typical wedding invitation cards:<br />
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Also because of our tradition, there is lots of stuff need to be included in a piece of card. We need to write heaps of ramblings just so the card looks impressively religious and traditional. Here in my place, we go to another extreme where lists of wakil or people who more or less will be involved in my wedding. By right, if you want to list down people who will be involved in my weddings (and when I said involved, those who really go all out to ensure the success of the event), it will be just too many. We went through few wedding invitation cards that my Grandfather had collected and they all look roughly the same...<br />
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But the fact is, the names we need to include are not really the people who will be tremendously helpful. And the best thing is, if their name is not mention, they will sulk and hate me for the rest of their life… To certain extreme, they will not even come to our wedding. By right, these people should not be invited even or if they are invited and choose not come for the mentioned reasons… Then, thank you for showing to me that you are not worthy enough to be related to. I despise people who easily break a relationship, especially family ties for such petty excuses. Should not we work harder to foster better relationship with each other no matter how different is your ways and thinking? Should not we show respect for any differences we have as long as we do not go against Islam?<br />
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Yet I have to remind myself, to give and take, and focus on the fact that I am bringing everyone together in the family to strengthen the family ties through my wedding… after all, as I had mentioned, it is just a small things and I should be able to look over it and get it over with… Insyaallah. Just give me strength to face human idiocy and the stubbornness to accept others differences…<br />
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Anyway, I got what I wanted mostly. Like what the emperor of China had said in Mulan:<br />
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So we went on with the pop up wedding invitation cards…<br />
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Alhamdulillah. Thank you very much...<br />
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Owh... Mulan: Emperor of China of China from<a href="http://www.tumblr.com/tagged/emperor%20of%20china" target="_blank"> here</a>.<br />
The typical Wedding Invitation from my country were taken after Google image kad kawin.<br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-408034284944209338.post-49898639642798550752013-07-07T07:07:00.000+08:002013-07-07T07:07:00.074+08:00The Engagement... SURPRISE!Hmmmm… I forgot to follow the chronological order of the events leading to my wedding. Before the cards were made and sent out, we got engage.<br />
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I know what some people will say now, that everything was way too fast. And no people, no accident had happened or anything like that. Both of us just decided to get married as soon as possible so that we can love each other the halal way or according to Islam. Thus we try to keep everything as close as possible to Islamic ways as we were getting married.<br />
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We had been friend for quite some time now. I had asked her for possibility of us being together for the rest of our live somewhere nearing the end of 2012. Her answer was given somewhere in November and our parents approval were given in December.<br />
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We planned to get married a bit later in 2013 but decided to be engaged in late January. Anyway the wedding date changed and push earlier than what we had planned due to my sister’s wedding and my cousin’s wedding. We did not want to wait for too long as I had told you earlier…<br />
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Thus the engagement that we did was the simplest form that we could manage which was attended by only the closest relatives. It is necessary to do engagement in Islam and it is utmost important in Malay culture as well. The engagement is some sort of formal booking that both of us will be getting married. It is also the time where both families can see one another. Then we can also pinpoint who will be handling the next step which will be planning for the wedding and stuff.<br />
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Anyway, on our engagement day, I surprise my wife who was at that time wife to be, with a ring. Does not really sound interesting but the fact was I told her that I would not give her anything on that day. Just go to her house and wave hi… Or something like that…<br />
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Secretly, I had actually bought two rings, one ring for her wedding and the other for her engagement. I thought hard on how to bring the ring to her without her knowing what it is until the very last minute.<br />
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Then I came across the butterflies in the bottle idea over the internet. Then I thought the best way is to hide the ring in the branch with the butterfly holding it. Then when it is the right time, pull the butterfly with the ring and surprise her!<br />
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So I went out looking for the right branch. Luckily there were lots of fallen branches at that time.<br />
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Then I was going to follow the butterflies in the bottle idea directly. Unfortunately, with the branch that size, it did not really look that good.<br />
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So my mother then suggested a mini garden with lots of butterflies. Hey, that could work!<br />
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I googled for butterflies template, and choose the easiest to color using paint. No fancy illustrator programs used here. As our theme was going to be purple black and white, the butterflies were some sort of teaser to the actual event.<br />
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Did all the color matching, find the best design, and printed the butterflies on both side of A4 paper. I decided to use black and few shades of purple for the common butterflies and one white and few shades of purple butterfly as the ring holder. Cut them out and folded the wings. Used very thin wire and colored it black using permanent marker as their feelers.<br />
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My mother did the garden. Bought a decent basket for the sponges, tied them up with these thin wires to hold them down and used hot glue to stick the grass bits to the sponge.<br />
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Then we stick the flowers to the sponge… My mother did the whole flower arrangement. I only need to stuck the branch bit somewhere on the sponge and make sure it was hold securely to the sponge.<br />
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The top most of the branch, I made a hole just big enough to swallow the whole ring in it. That will be the ring hiding place. With double sided tape, I stick the butterfly and the ring together.<br />
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It worked splendidly with my at that time fiancée. She was really surprise that she got a ring on her engagement! She thought it would be only the butterflies and the garden…<br />
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The butterflies are for my wife to be. For the cover, it is just a simple drawing of us on the crescent. there is a short poem about us and the name of the two of us was later added.<br />
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I did some sort of an emblem of the two of us, but later scrap off the idea and replaced it with us on the crescent except the boy is sitting down together with the girl.<br />
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The back of the card was also written with an ayat from surah Ar Rum verse 21, as a reminder about the marriage in Islam:<br />
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<i>And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.</i><br />
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On the card, it is written in Malay language.<br />
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I framed the back of the card with Tengwar, the middle earth elf writings (JRR Tolkien). Since purple was one of the main color, I used the opportunity for another tribute to my favorite, the Lanterns from the DC Universe.<br />
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If you noticed, the symbol for the violet lanterns shone brightly on top of the hand of the girl in the cover and the back cover of the card.<br />
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For this card, Star Sapphires or the Violet Lanterns took the main stage and their love power really suits the whole theme. Carol Ferris one of the popular violet lantern, below is reciting the first three parts of the Star Sapphires oath:<br />
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Thus I wrote their oath in Tengwar, which took quite some time since the Tengwar letters are spelt out according to how you pronounce them. Here is the oath, for your easy reading:<br />
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<i><span style="background-color: white; color: #674ea7;">For hearts long lost and full of fright,</span></i><br />
<i><span style="background-color: white; color: #674ea7;">For those alone in blackest night,</span></i><br />
<i><span style="background-color: white; color: #674ea7;">Accept our ring and join our fight,</span></i><br />
<i><span style="background-color: white; color: #674ea7;">Love conquers all - with violet light!</span></i><br />
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And here is the oath in Tengwar:<br />
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My good brothers who are good with the Adobe illustrator digitalized my design of the cards. Once the softcopy was completed, it was easier for me to make any changes and play around with the layout with the wordings.<br />
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Once the whole design had been completed, we sent it to the printing shop. Once the cards had been printed out, we put the cards together. The main card is made of half A4 card. The pop up is made of quarter of A4 card. The printing shop had cut them to the exact sizes. All we had to do was to fold them… Owh and because the cards were custom made, we just had to buy the envelope for them. It was a pity that I could not find the purple envelope…<br />
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Put the double sided tape on the pop up to stick them on the main card. I did not use glue for it will be messier and waiting for it to dry will take longer.<br />
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And yes, we had to do this for 400 cards! It was lovely to see them all standing though…<br />
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And here is where I obtained <a href="http://greenlantern.wikia.com/wiki/Carol_Ferris" target="_blank">Carrol Fenris picture</a> and <a href="http://www.deviantart.com/morelikethis/123509185" target="_blank">The Violet Lantern Sigil</a>. Thank you very much!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-408034284944209338.post-82112697303322955082013-07-05T11:44:00.002+08:002013-07-05T15:48:52.627+08:00The Wedding Card... Part One!<br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">The design started as soon as the date of our wedding had been confirmed. I spent few days sketching my ideas on the paper. I also tried to get simplest and easiest pop up card design. I do not want anything too fancy and complicated because I need to make about 400 cards. Also, in case I have to be offshore, working (which actually happened), I still want whoever take over doing the cards to have an easy life.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">I also played around with the layout of the card and think of the best way to maximize all the information I wanted on the card. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">I ended up with the design below: half A4 card folded into two and a quarter of A4 as the pop up part. The best layout for me since it can maximize the pop up card image as well as the information written on it.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">Then, after I had finalized the image I wanted to have on the pop up, I scanned it and put it into few different sizes. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">Next I worked out which will fit nicely on the card.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">Then I work out the best size which was actually 180% larger than the original size. </span><span style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">Then I also have to decide whether the drawing should be on the right side or the left side of the pop up card. It was then chosen to be on the right hand side… </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">Then I put in colors and the text. Play around with the layout to see the best design I could came up with.I cut the text on pieces of paper and paper clipped them on the card.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">For the card, I choose black, white and purple theme. The colors were tribute to Kamen Rider W in their Fang Joker form. One of my favorite Kamen Riders...</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">If you also noticed, the position of the bride in white and the groom in black resemble the Kamen Rider W Fang Joker form as well. For those who do not know Kamen Rider W, the rider consists of two souls in one body. Later on in the series, they are able to combine two bodies and souls as one. The right side is more feminine and the left side masculine which suits the bride and groom position perfectly.</span></span>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">And that is it for the first part. It will be too long to cover everything in one post. I will finish up with the rest in the second part, insyaallah.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">Owh, here is where I obtained the <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/murakami_night/4757570691/" target="_blank">Kamen Rider W Fang Joker</a> picture.</span></div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-408034284944209338.post-39016675584985398612013-07-05T00:28:00.003+08:002013-07-05T00:28:19.935+08:00And... Yes, I am back yet again...Yes, been saying that a few times now. Apart being plain lazy to write and post, I was pretty occupied with so many long offshore trips, my wedding and my sister's wedding to name a few…<br />
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Also, I am now free of the workforce. I had been at it for like 3 years and 9 months now.<br />
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I quit my job mainly because I need to rest, a luxury that was limited during my service. Also I need time to really collect my thoughts and rethink my direction in my life for I do not like where I am heading at that moment.<br />
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So here I am, catching up with my life again as much as I can, picking up all the stuff that I had left laying on the ground and pondering my next step.<br />
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And yes, one of my to do list is updating this blog of mine; hopefully I can start updating regularly now.<br />
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Owh well, I should start getting that as one of my habit since this one class I am taking now will require me to do so.<br />
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I will let you guys know more later on…<br />
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For now, welcome back!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-408034284944209338.post-27291121359609271252013-01-13T23:29:00.003+08:002013-01-13T23:29:49.414+08:00Wedding…<br />
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<span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I know I am getting married to this girl…
But for wedding, we don’t have our own wedding. Others dictate the wedding for
us. It will be attended by their friends. It will be decorated by them. They are
excited yes, for our marriage, so they celebrate it the way they want it. No, I
am just getting married but our wedding is theirs.</span></span></div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-408034284944209338.post-14031934084721086642013-01-11T00:32:00.002+08:002013-01-11T00:32:51.607+08:00Madness…<br />
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<span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 11.0pt;">Dear me,</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 11.0pt;">I am at the precipice of madness
and insanity. It is hard for the happiness sunshine within me to keep myself
from coming close to the edge.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 11.0pt;">So many things blotting the happiness ray…
That I wish I am somewhere else where nobody knows me. Somewhere else where I do
not have to make everyone happy. Somewhere else where I get to do what I like
and love. Someplace where nobody shot me down for wanting more money and then
keep blabbing about needing money for lots of stuff. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 11.0pt;">I am at the precipice of madness and
insanity. I was filled with so much happiness that I hurt someone dear to me. The
happiness blots me out from listening to her and remembering the important
details in her life. Owh how much I had said stuff that I should not say and
how much I need to say the stuff that I should say. Do make doa so that this
happiness does not create rift between her and I so much so that we will split
into different path. My eagerness had been hurting instead of making her happy.
Do not let this happen too often for I cannot bear a tortured love one in front
of me. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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for me…<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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then, I will have to apologize but my blog will be ranting more on lovey dovey
stuff such as wedding for a while…<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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have few things in my hand now that I need to do in order to get our wedding to
run smoothly. Though I had been prepared, there is lots of stuff to be done.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<li class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span style="color: #e06666; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">We had just worked out the
guest list. We need to know how many people will be invited so that we can
work out the budget for the food. So far, the most expensive item on my
wedding list. If I give in to my mother, aunties and my grandmother, the
whole citizen of this place where I live should be invited. I had to beg
them not to do so.<o:p></o:p></span></span></li>
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one of the controversial items. I am trying to work out my ideas and need
to do it fast because my wedding date is very soon and we need to give out
the cards as early as possible.<o:p></o:p></span></span></li>
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Alhamdulillah my future partner and I had agreed to do it at the Masjid.
Others had not really put too much resistance on our decision as well,
alhamdulillah for that as well.<o:p></o:p></span></span></li>
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to spend so much on the decoration and want it to be simple yet elegant. Been
searching the website for ideas and I will discuss this in greater details
soon. <o:p></o:p></span></span></li>
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issues as well. Should not be a problem. The cost should not be a problem
as well and will be enough to get good and delicious food for our guests.<o:p></o:p></span></span></li>
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that will look good on my lovely wife finger… I had scrapped the
customized ring ideas since the time is too short and the cost is quite
errrr… expensive. <o:p></o:p></span></span></li>
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soon as we hand in our marriage forms. We can only do that after my wife
to be had attended the marriage course. Yes, it is compulsory here in my
country. And no, you do not have to wait until you want to get married to
do so. Most of the alim and ulama will advise you to do it as early as
possible, the best time to do it is when you have the intention to get
married, so that you will be better prepared for your marriage life. Put it
this way, if you want to be an engineer, you attend the 4 years plus
university course. Marriage you want it to last forever, so more time
should be put to prepare for it then…</span></span></li>
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I will talk on each item in details later and probably let you guys know the
latest news on the stuff I need to cover before my big day, insyaallah.</span></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-408034284944209338.post-67611875757854117162013-01-10T09:23:00.000+08:002013-01-10T09:32:45.219+08:00Our early steps towards each other…<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">I
have butterflies in my stomach… And I think I am getting more butterflies as
the day inch closer to our agreed date.</span><br />
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are now at the stage where lots of things need to be prepared to commemorate
the conjoining of our lives together. This is also the time I had fear the most
and despise. I have to remind myself that you will not be able to taste your
harvest if you do not plant it first.</span></div>
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is also the time where you get to see the ugly side of the people around you. I
had just heard of stories how some people would not go to a wedding just
because the name of their invitation cards was spelt incorrectly. How could
they forsake the ties of relationship over the petty things? I guess, if that
happen to me, I will know the people around me better. Those who choose to
create a big fuss over small matter rather than securing the love and good will
to each others. I make doa that I too will not be these sort of people…<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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always wonder, ever since I was involved in weddings, why o why people always
want their ways in someone wedding. I do not mind suggestions but to push your
ideas so much so that it meant we have to do it really bugs me. If that
suggestions or ideas give me benefits in the hereafter as well as making my
wedding to be blessed further by Allah, I do not mind. But, it surprises me how
much we care about what others think instead. We do things just so we make
people around us happy. Yet, nobody had ever asked us how we want our wedding
to be. I had not heard people asking that question in the wedding planning
meetings or when being told you are getting married. Nobody care about the
bride and groom happiness…<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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guess that is the start of the chain of unhappiness. The previous generation
always burdens us with their wants and wishes.
We, the current generation who is getting married HAVE to carry it out,
mostly out of respect and to make our elders happy. Carrying their dreamt
wedding with them since the day they got married until the day their own
children will marry, they now entrust their own wishes to their children so
that they can see the wedding that they wanted so much materialize… This is
very sad but please, as long as our wants and wishes do not go against Islam,
can you please let us have our own wedding? Tied with our wishes, dreamt and
wants that will make our wedding OURS? We should learn to let go and stop
thinking of what people will say… Please watch this interesting video regarding
on what will the people say. Click <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Do_bBuTod1E&list=SPC9E6296531083FB7&index=4"><span style="color: #8e7cc3;">here</span></a>.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11.0pt;">Truly
if we stop being selfish and open to changes, we can break this sad chain… I
promised insyaallah that I will not do the same thing to my children. Let them
have the wedding that they wanted as long as we satisfy Allah needs and
requirements and does not burden the bride and groom financially. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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mean, people around us want so many things in the wedding but nobody check the
cost to produce or get the things. IT IS EASIER to say it than to PAY IT. Some people
just say it for the sake of saying it. Truly, we need to learn to ignore these
people as they will only ruin us by burdening us unnecessarily. If they are
willing to shell out and cover the cost for whatever suggestion they brought
up, by all means, no problem provided it is not against Islam.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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mentioned, you will always being tested especially when you want to do
something good. I just doa that I have the strength to endure all these, that
my wife to be understand and willing to compromise and work together and the
people around us easier to cooperate with whatever needs and wishes we have…</span><br />
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courtesy of <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/zaksphotos/"><span style="color: #b4a7d6;">flickr.com</span></a> by searching for butterflies in my tummy…</span><span style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-408034284944209338.post-35397134542085691312013-01-09T15:35:00.000+08:002013-01-09T15:35:01.314+08:00This one Girl…<br />
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is another year already… And this year insyaallah, another chapter will be open
in the book of my life.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 11.0pt;">My
journey through this life alone for nearly 30 years will now be accompanied by
another person.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 11.0pt;">All
because of this one question I asked… Followed by this paper bag which carried
a letter, begging for her answer.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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given answer which now lead to this exciting moment of my life which will soon
be ours.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-408034284944209338.post-13955731937842085172012-12-26T15:59:00.001+08:002012-12-26T16:15:51.743+08:00Money...<br />
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have to say this… I have greed for money. To have lots and lots of money. I was told that this is not healthy, this
greed of mine. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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funny thing, even though they said money is not important and going after lots
of money is not good etc… At the end of the day, they end up asking for money. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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is important to bind family ties closer but travelling to see them need money. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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out, eating at home, buying food, doing groceries and treating guests need
money. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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I go to someone house without bringing anything, I was told that is not a good behavior
and I should bring something… That too
needs money. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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there are functions such as weddings and funerals, when we attend them, we need
to give some token which is usually money.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 11.0pt;">It
does get pretty annoying whenever I express my wish to get more money and to be
shot down for that wish. Yet after that we will hear about bills to be paid,
taking over someone else car’s payment, saving up money, buying presents,
repairing house, buying stuff, getting new furniture, sending cats to vets and
so on… How can you say money is not important then? Every day we hear these
talks and when my wish for more money is surfaced, “Hush now boy, don’t get
consume by your greed.”<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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it wrong to wish for more money so that we can do more stuff? Or my greatest
dream is to have lots of money so that I spend more time doing stuff that I love. To me, money is a tool. I don’t mind if you don’t think money is not really that important or whatever
you want to say but when it comes to the time when money is needed, don’t look
at me and ask me to pay…<o:p></o:p></span></div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-408034284944209338.post-79089969746090600812012-10-05T15:54:00.002+08:002012-10-05T15:54:28.959+08:00My Bride...<br />
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am already at that age where everybody asks me when I will get married and
shake their head with sadness when they know my age.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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my dear reader, don’t you think I should be a bit choosy? After all we are
talking about committing yourself to a person for like your whole life. Who
will be with you in happiness and sadness. When I am rich and when I am poor.
When I am sick and healthy. From now until I am very old. Don’t you want
someone with certain quality? The last person you see before you sleep and
first person you see when you wake up. Your company and your partner. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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mean, you try to be quite choosy when you pick out candidates to work with you.
At least if you are not happy with the person, you can fire him. Are you saying
that I should divorce and marry a woman god knows many times in my life? I
don’t think you will want your children to marry just anybody on the street, so
please don’t say that to me as well. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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